The Grands Letter (Num/GLJ)
Gene L. Jeffries, Th.D. on April 4, 2026 5:28 am (CST)
Dear Grands,
Numbers 30:1-4, “Then Moses spoke to the heads of the tribes of the sons of Israel, saying, ‘This is the word which the LORD has commanded.
2 “If a man makes a vow to the LORD or takes an oath to bind himself with a binding obligation, he shall not violate his word; he shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth.
3 “Also, if a woman makes a vow to the LORD, and binds herself by an obligation in her father’s house in her youth,
4 and her father hears her vow and her obligation by which she has bound herself, and her father says nothing to her, then all her vows shall stand and every obligation by which she has bound herself shall stand.”
The standard commanded here, notwithstanding that it lies in an Old Testament repository, is simply “Tell the truth.” To the best of my memory, it was Samuel Clemens (Mark Twain) who commended honesty when he said, “Always tell the truth and you won’t have to remember anything.”
As a youth, I was taught to always tell the truth. That often led me to believe everything others said to be actually true. In a short time, however, I learned not to believe everything I heard. It takes time and effort to sort out who tells the truth and who does not.
The Old Testament clearly charges the head of the household with the guardianship of truth. He is also charged with always telling the truth himself. Thus, the entire household is clothed with integrity.
Refusing to take sides regarding whether someone outside of the home is being truthful is not another person’s obligation. Truth itself will ultimately prevail, and everyone will clearly understand. One should not have to be put under an oath regarding his words, as to whether they are viewed as truthful. At the same time, no one should ever repeat anything unless and until it is clearly verified. Even then, it may not be beneficial.
Heartily in Christ,
Gene L. Jeffries, Th.D.
United States of America
“We will never know that Christ is all we need, until He becomes all that we have.” –Corrie ten Boom
