The Grands Letter (Eph/GLJ)
Gene L. Jeffries, Th.D. on August 13, 2022 5:27 am (CST)Dear Grands,
Ephesians 6:1-4, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.
2 HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER (which is the first commandment with a promise),
3 SO THAT IT MAY BE WELL WITH YOU, AND THAT YOU MAY LIVE LONG ON THE EARTH.
4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction
of the Lord.”
The concept of “freedom” is much easier to envision than it is to instill. If the original Old Testament Commandment, “Honor your father and your mother…” (Exodus 20:12), seems insufficient today, try the verses cited above for today’s times, as well. Noteworthy is the fact that Paul’s letter to the Ephesians carries with it the instruction of the LORD. And if today’s news is to be trusted, we had better move quickly and activate Paul’s directions.
Honor bespeaks “respect”; and it includes both parents and is accompanied with a promise. The initial aspect of the promise is that “it may be well with you.” Do what you’re told and you’ll get along well with your parents and your peers. Peace in the household sets the “temperature” for all other human connections. Stated simply: those who learn to obey their parents, learn to get along with their peers and with older adults. In all, it makes for a more peaceful world.
Yet, there’s another divine promise in verse 3: “…so that it may be well with you, and that you may live long on the Earth.” The idea of it “being well with you” may cover your health and even accomplishments in your life’s work. There is a temptation to focus solely upon what you can gain; however, a peaceful household is beneficial to parents and children alike. There’s an old saying that says: “You can’t do wrong and get by.” Perhaps, you’ve tried that and found it yourself to be true. Now, try the “good” side of behavior. My guess is you’ll like it best.
Heartily in Christ Jesus,
(Dado III)
Gene L. Jeffries, Th.D.
Springdale, Arkansas 72764
United States of America
“We never know that Christ is all we need until He becomes all that we have.” – Corrie ten Boom
