The Grands Letter (Philem/GLJ)
Gene L. Jeffries, Th.D. on April 20, 2023 6:31 am (CST)Dear Grands,
Philemon 1:1-11, “Paul, a prisoner of Christ Jesus, and Timothy our brother, To Philemon our beloved brother and fellow worker,
2 and to Apphia our sister, and to Archippus our fellow soldier, and to the church in your house:
3 Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
4 I thank my God always, making mention of you in my prayers,
5 because I hear of your love and of the faith which you have toward the Lord Jesus and toward all the saints;
6 and I pray that the fellowship of your faith may become effective through the knowledge of every good thing which is in you for Christ’s sake.
7 For I have come to have much joy and comfort in your love, because the hearts of the saints have been refreshed through you, brother.
8 Therefore, though I have enough confidence in Christ to order you to do what is proper,
9 yet for love’s sake I rather appeal to you– since I am such a person as Paul, the aged, and now also a prisoner of Christ Jesus–
10 I appeal to you for my child Onesimus, whom I have begotten in my imprisonment,
11 who formerly was useless to you, but now is useful both to you and to me.”
In one of the historical books I am currently reading, author H. E. Dana writes, “Rule with the Romans; worship with the Jews; think with the Greeks.” Philemon was a wealthy man who resided in Colosse. The wealthy in those days owned a large number of slaves. He was also a prominent member of the local group of Christians, who formed the Church in Colosse.
Onesimus, one of Philemon’s slaves, had escaped from his owner, found his way to Paul in Rome, and became a true believer in Jesus Christ. The LORD only knows the responsibilities Onesimus then undertook to assist Paul in his imprisonment. Paul him would have loved to have retained him; yet, he knew that Onesimus belonged to Philemon and needed to return.
Psychology owned no textbooks in those days; yet, Paul undertook to utilize that skill in his response to Philemon. “Receive him as you would receive me,” Paul said. Immediately thereafter, he reminded Philemon of how much he (Paul) had done for him (Philemon) when he was with him in Colosse. We’re not told what Paul did, but Philemon understood the meaning and treated thereby treated Onesimus as a brother rather than as a run-away slave.
We ought never to do things for others just in order to be able to hold them accountable to us. We need always to do things out of a sincere and loving heart, serving the LORD.. At the time Paul helped Philemon, he had no idea that Onesimus would one day run away. We ought always to treat others in the pure love of Christ.
My guess is that you and I both have done some good things for others without thinking of their owing or repaying us. We don’t know the trials others are encountering. True Christian Love seeks nothing but to honor and glorify the LORD Jesus Christ. Sometimes, just a sweet smile cheers the heart of someone who desperately needs it.
Heartily in Christ Jesus,
(Dado III)
Gene L. Jeffries, Th.D.
Springdale, Arkansas 72764
United States of America
“We never know that Christ is all we need until He becomes all that we have.” – Corrie ten Boom